MEDITATE TO HELP YOUR THOUGHTS GO BY EASILY
Before diving into this week’s topic, I want to take some time to provide some definitions and answer some questions to ensure that we are all on the same page. Meditation: thinking deeply or focusing one's mind for a period of time, in silence or with the aid of chanting, for spiritual purposes or as a method of relaxation Mindfulness: the practice of maintaining a nonjudgmental state of heightened or complete awareness of one's thoughts, emotions, or experiences on a moment-to-moment basis
WHY SHOULD I CARE ABOUT MEDITATION? Because it has a direct connection to health benefits such as lower blood pressure, improved blood circulation, lower heart rate, less perspiration, slower respiratory rate, less anxiety, lower blood cortisol levels, more feelings of well-being, less stress and deeper relaxation.
WHO SHOULD MEDITATE? EVERYONE! You don’t have to have some enlightened, spiritual abilities to practice meditation. You don’t have to be a yogi and go around saying namaste to everyone. You don’t have to know someone within the meditation community to be invited into it. Literally anyone from toddlers to elders can do and benefit from meditation.
WHERE SHOULD I START? Take your time in trying out all different types of meditation and mindfulness activities to figure out what suites you best (resources provided below). After more and more time is spent meditating you will become more and more comfortable with the idea of being still and focusing your attention to your breath.
Quick Practice: Let’s Give It A Go! 1. Find a quiet space 2. Sit or lie down and get comfortable 3. Close your eyes 4. Breathe natural. Make no effort to control your breathing 5. Focus your attention on your breath. Observe your bodies movements with your breath. Focus your attention on your breath, remembering not to control it and allowing it to flow in and out naturally. When your mind wanders, that’s okay, just thank your thoughts and return your focus back to your breath. a. Start with doing this for a few minutes, and then add one more time as your practice progresses.
RESOURCES: Books: The Mindful Twenty-Something Wherever You Go There You Are How to Walk, How to Sit, How to Eat, Reconciliation Coming to Our Senses Real Happiness Headspace Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness Mindfulness Self-Compassion Online: KORU Mindfulness UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley Wildmind Meditation Oasis YouTube: Jon Kabat-Zinn Pema Chodran Sharon SalzBurg Tara Brach Apps: Koru Mindfulness Insight Timer-Meditation Timer Mindfulness Calm Headspace
thought noun \ ˈthȯt \ DEFINITION OF THOUGHT (Entry 1 of 2) 1: something that is thought: such as a: an individual act or product of thinking b: a developed intention or plan had no thought of leaving home c: something (such as an opinion or belief) in the mind he spoke his thoughts freely d: the intellectual product or the organized views and principles of a period, place, group, or individual
We have thoughts all day everyday. It is one of the functions (and a very important one) of our story telling brains.
Thoughts are typically helpful to us in our day to day lives but they can also be the fuel to anxiety, stress and other uncomfortable emotions. The harder we think about it (trying to ignore it usually); the more anxiety floods our minds and bodies. This process usually frustrates us and therefore sending us down another rabbit hole. Sometimes to avoid that hole, it may help to focus your attention elsewhere, but there are times that our emotions have completely taken over and feels as if we don’t have control to focus our attention elsewhere and during these times is when meditation might be helpful in dealing with your thoughts and allowing them to go by.
Instead of trying to change where your mind is, try to shift how you view that emotion. For example, try to picture that emotion in your minds eye. Maybe it looks like a big storm cloud that downpours on your entire day. That sure doesn’t sound like fun. So during the meditation let’s try to clear, alter or shift that image. Maybe figuring out how it can look more like a light airy breeze that periodically comes by and chills you. What needs to happen within that picture to turn a storm into an inconsistent breeze? How can the scenery be shifted and changed to make it more welcoming? Mind seem a bit abstract in the moment, but a regular meditation practice can aid you in being able to do this with more ease. Try it out now: Free Your Mind – Guided Meditation – Listen Here Guided Meditation – Quiet Mind For Anxiety And Negative Thoughts – Listen Here
Written by: Shannon Gonter, LPCC
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